LDS Wedding Planning Checklist

LDS Wedding Planning Checklist

This wedding planning checklist is designed to help couples navigate the specific requirements and traditions associated with planning a marriage within The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. Use this document to track your progress from initial engagement through the sealing ceremony and the subsequent reception.

Phase 1: Engagement and Church Requirements

• Meet with your Bishop to discuss marriage expectations and the sealing process.
• Complete the necessary temple recommend interviews for both parties.
• Determine the desired date and location for the sealing ceremony.
• Confirm availability of the temple and schedule the sealing date.
• Begin pre-marital counseling or study materials as recommended by your Bishop.

Phase 2: Ceremony and Reception Logistics

• Finalize the guest list for the temple sealing (limited to recommend holders).
• Finalize the guest list for the ring ceremony or reception (open to all).
• Secure a venue for the reception or ring ceremony.
• Select and book an officiant if performing a ring ceremony.
• Arrange for temple clothing and attire for the sealing.
• Coordinate transportation for guests between the temple and the reception venue.

Phase 3: Vendors and Details

• Book photographer and videographer (ensure they understand temple grounds photography policies).
• Select and order catering for the reception.
• Choose and order floral arrangements and decorations.
• Purchase wedding rings.
• Send out invitations, clearly distinguishing between the sealing/ceremony and the reception.

Phase 4: Final Preparations

• Confirm all temple appointments and recommend statuses.
• Finalize the reception program and music list.
• Pick up marriage license from local civil authorities (if required for a civil ceremony prior to sealing).
• Confirm final headcounts with caterers and vendors.
• Assign roles for the reception (greeters, gift table attendants, etc.).

Pro Tips

• Temple Policies: Always check the specific guidelines of the temple where you are being sealed, as photography and guest policies can vary by location.
• Communication: Clearly communicate to guests who are not temple recommend holders which events they are invited to attend to avoid any confusion or hurt feelings.
• Budgeting: Prioritize your budget toward the sealing and the reception, keeping in mind that LDS weddings often involve two distinct groups of guests.

Frequently Asked Questions

Do I need a civil marriage license if I am being sealed in the temple?

In many regions, the temple sealing is recognized as a legal marriage. However, you should verify the specific legal requirements in your country or state with your Bishop or local government office to ensure all civil documentation is completed.

How do I handle guests who are not invited to the temple sealing?

It is common practice to host a ring ceremony or a reception that includes all friends and family. Clearly state on your invitations which events each guest is invited to attend so everyone feels included in your celebration.

Can we take photos on the temple grounds?

Most temples allow photography on the grounds, but there are often specific rules regarding where you can stand and the type of attire allowed. Always check with the temple visitor center or your local leadership for current policies.